SMDH

People never cease to amaze me, that's one of the good things I can say about the human race...just when you think you've seen it all, we do something new! Anyways, so a "blast" from my past has recently sought me out to regain contact and since we didn't really part ways on a negative note (not really positive either) I was like cool okay. So we've been chatting back and forth here and there for about a year or so. At first it was text everyday, calling on his lunch break just to say "Hi!" He was goin on and on about he's missed me for the past 13 years and how I was the love of his life. Mind you when he first "found" me I was 8 mnths pregnant, but he didn't seem to care about any of that then not to mention I told him from the get go that me and the baby daddy were still very much involved. So, I drop the baby and things are still cool we still talk off and on, and it is kinda nice to have an old friend back. Fast forward to Wednesday...so I ask him to send me a pic for my new phone to save in caller id, and i get this long winded explanation about how his phone doesn't take good pics and that he can only send them through email. To which I respond, "it is cool, just send it to my email I am sure that it will be fine (per previously sent pics)." He gets all in a tizzy...why do always think I'm lying, etc...WTH?!?!?! How did that statement get interpreted as an accusation of lying? Am I missing something...well, I respond to the accusation saying "that wasn't how I meant it, I was just saying that any picture would suffice", 3 days later I get another response after my second text asking why he was being so quiet, to which he responds " you always think I am telling stories". Now I am shaking my damn head...I remember you telling me you brought an new cell phone in July, you honestly want me to believe that you can only send pics through email, what cellphone does that? Now shaky coverage and missing text msgs. I can believe, but now the string of convenient "can'ts" is growing. You don't wanna be bothered, please just say that...I mean my life for the past 13 years had moved on, you were the one going on and on about you missed me and wanted to find me and I was the love of your life...yadda yadda yadda. Please by all means crawl back under the rock you disappeared under 13 years ago. Now he accuses me of being "short" with people and that I have to care about something, "REally, I mean really?" I am short with people...NO! I am short with you...you are the one who can't accept my explanations, you are the one who wanted back in MY life and now are acting shady, you are the one who initially disappeared from MY life with no explanation, no good-bye, nothing! And now you wanna act like I owe you something...NINJA PUH-LEZ! I care about a whole helluva lot which is part of my problem now, because it usually causes me heartache in the end....let's flashback to '95 when I cared about you, then you dis-afreakin-ppeared only to get someone else pregnant, yeah exactly. So now I am once again SMDH at somebody who I clearly NEVER should have given a 2nd chance!!!!! "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!"